Women and men in relationships seek a lot different things. In lots of relationships, women often feel that they are getting the raw end of the deal and men are not giving them what they want. Men often feel that they don’t know what women want from them. There is always a persistent dissent in the wants and needs between both the gender. But women aren’t that difficult to understand. Most women seek basic minimum in a relationship to be happy. But that ‘minimum’ is subjective and varies with different women. Men often think that women are hard to please and are only impressed by elaborate romantic gestures. But that is far from the truth. Sometimes, all women need are a bit of support and a pair of healing ears to feel loved and relevant in their relationships. Here is a list of things that women seek in happy relationships.
1. She Wants To Be Loved
Women want to feel like they are loved in their relationships. When they feel loved, they would offer much more in return. The arguments will lessen, the understanding will increase, the sex will get better and the relationship will blossom into a wonderful union. Genesis of all the problems happen when a woman feels neglected. She is not upset because you are going out with your friends, but rather she is sad because you didn’t feel the need to some spend time with her after a busy week. Her monosyllabic replies to your happy questions are a by-product of her feeling not loved enough. So, invest sometime in her and make her feel loved. A tight hug, a passionate kiss and some cozy cuddles can do wonders for her mood.
2. She Needs A Sense Of Security
A woman has been programmed from her birth to think about her safety before everything else. It is deeply ingrained in the psyche of all women. So, she will not open up about herself in a relationship unless she feels completely safe with a man. Thus, it is a partner’s job to ensure that sense of emotional security that she needs to open up to him about herself and her past.
3. Make Her Feel Seen
Women are very intuitive creatures. Hence, they know when they are being invisible to their partners. If she is going through something harrowing and you are not even bothered to ask her about it, then she will feel alone in her battle. No individual wants to feel alone and invisible in a relationship. She wants you to see her and her pain. She doesn’t expect you to solve her problems, but she expects you to care enough to ask. Also, women are very aware of the fact that men are visual creatures. So, when a man suddenly stops appreciating his woman’s efforts to look nice for him, she feels invisible. So, make some effort to reassure her of your love.
4. She Wants To Feel Desired
Women love it when their partners find them desirable. So, it is important for a man to make his woman feel like he finds her irresistible at times. This will restore the passion back into their relationship. So, compliment her for her new dress, surprise her with a sensual grab and let her know that you think she is sexy. Your relationship will benefit from this.
5. She Wants To Feel Appreciated
Women often feel like they are not appreciated for the efforts that they put in making a relationship work. She doesn’t want you to mollycoddle her in a relationship but she wants you to notice the efforts that she makes. Thank her for the wonderful meal that she cooked for you after a hard day at work. That’s all she wants. Acknowledging her efforts will make you a hero in her eyes.
Women aren’t as complex as men think them to be. Little bit of care and appreciation, and a lot of unadulterated love is all a woman needs to feel happy in a relationship.
