No matter who we are or what kind of personality we have, there are a few types of people that mutually irritate us or bring out the sides of us that we are not proud of. They may not necessarily be bad people, but we all have or know that one person who cannot stop making a big fuss about himself/herself. This person always whines about something or other, tries to make everything revolve around himself/herself, never seems happy, and so on. Spending little or more time with such a person, slowly starts making you feel depressed or even constantly agitated or short-tempered.
Well, let us reassure you that it’s not your fault and you’re definitely not alone in this.
Although, you might initially feel sorry for that person or empathize with them, with the hope that you can make this person feel better or even change them, it can slowly and often unknowingly zap away your happiness, energy, and patience from everyday life.
So, here are 7 signs of the kind of people you need to stay away from. And for those of you
1. This Person Judges You For Every Little Thing
Whether it’s the kind of clothes you wear, what you say, the books you read, the music you listen to, the things you do, and even your dreams, these are a few of their favorite things to judge about you. Although you may get the occasional good comment about it, they may secretly be judging you in their minds or behind your back. So do not ever think that what they show you is everything they’re saying about you. Likewise, you may be the hot-topic in their gossip and rumor circles too, from making jokes about you, ridiculing the things you do, and even putting you down for the smallest to biggest things. Well, nobody needs this!
2. This Person Doesn’t Listen To Anyone, But Their Own Voice
Besides not listening to you, they often talk without letting you finish what you have to say, or even interrupting you with the thought that whatever they have to tell you is more important than what you have to say. Sometimes you probably feel like they only pretend to listen to you but are only listening with the intention of formulating a response and not to actually understand or give your words any value. This includes cutting you off with a story of their own, changing the topic to something completely out of context, walking off in the middle of the conversation, or being distracted by something irrelevant. If you can’t effectively communicate with someone like this, then there’s no point sticking with them.
3. This Person Criticizes Every Move You Make
Whether you’re sharing happy news or discussing an upsetting situation in your life, these people
4. This Person Always Plays ‘The Victim’
Each of their dramatic or over-the-top complains and whining have the underlying message of: “Oh, poor me!” It doesn’t matter if this happens to be their Whatsapp status, Facebook posts, or their dramatic entrance to office, only to make a scene because they’re desperate to get people’s
5. This Person Doesn’t Know How To Keep A Secret
It doesn’t matter if you shared a close and personal secret with them, if you did something embarrassing the previous night at a party, or even told them what you had for lunch. Without another thought, this would probably reach the ears of someone in Timbuktu or well at least your friends and their social circles. With ‘toxic’ being
6. This Person Is The Perfect Hypocrite
With a character that switches from North Pole to South Pole in a matter of seconds, these people have a tendency to say one thing coupled with the tallest claims and then do the complete opposite, just because they can. This may the stuff that those 60’s comedies are made of, but this is no joke. For example, they may urge you to take their advice on what to do for work, and when you do,
7. This Person Complains About Anything And Everything
Happiness is a myth in the minds of these people. Almost nothing will impress them, and they never seem to be happy with anything. Moreover, they are masters at finding mistakes or imperfections in the most perfectly good things. The sunniest days may seem too hot or bright, the sincerest compliment would be returned with sarcasm or brushed off like they deserved it, and even if
Although they are human and it may seem nice to focus on the good in them, make sure it is not at the expense of your own peace of mind or happiness.